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I met this introvert

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I met this introvert
« on: April 10, 2019, 11:37:27 PM »
After chatdicting another lady on fb I intend on us meeting then fortunately I saw her when I was about going to class I stopped her on the road I told her who I was when she realized I was the one started smiling.  We talked for a while and I collected her number.  After 2days I called n invited her to our fellowship for a program cos I do spoken words. She said she doesn't go to programs n social events I was surprised.  The next day we met in night class n she told me that's how she is ,that she is introverted and don't like being in the crowd  esp shows dat even weddings she rarely goes.
Some days later I called her on phone bt there was network problem cos I can't hear her clearly she then told me to call back. I called the next day n to my greatest surprise she was asking who is dis, I told her so u didn't save my number abi, she kept quiet.  After I called her big eyes she remembered I was the one, I then tell her let's meet the dat day she said she is busy I then told her the next day bt she then told me she is still busy. I ask her when will she be free she said she don't know. I ended the call feeling dissapointed  ,I haven't called her until nw. Yesterday I saw her n she waved at me. I don't know what to do with this girl sef

Re: I met this introvert
« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2019, 03:32:31 PM »
You're too pushy and a needy. Women avoid needy guys, so she's doing the right thing to you.

Persistent in life is good, but persistent with women is needy.

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Re: I met this introvert
« Reply #2 on: April 17, 2019, 01:05:12 AM »
I didn't call her again until after 8days but she didn't pick and didn't bother to call back, so I deleted her number. She is not serious.

Re: I met this introvert
« Reply #3 on: April 18, 2019, 11:35:21 AM »
Let me tell you the truth, whoever invests more energy loses. You've already showed more interest by being persistent, so she sees you as needy even if you think you aren't.

Stop inviting girls to your Church, they don't like it. It's a burden to them. If it's party, then they are more likely to come.

It seems you're the Churchy type of guy and you're indirectly foisting that lifestyle on her, so she knows and that's my she doesn't like your advances. It's Dr same thing as trying to cage a girl.

Despite deleting her number, you're going to still think of her and wish she changes her mind. When a girl is hard to get, she becomes attractive in a man's eye.

 
« Last Edit: April 18, 2019, 11:38:03 AM by AnswerMachine »

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Re: I met this introvert
« Reply #4 on: April 19, 2019, 01:25:59 AM »
I'm not the churchy type o, I only invited her cos I do gospel rap and spoken words just want her to see me perform. When I told her she missed my performance she was like I didn't explain it well to her. I told her she didn't even allow me to finish talking b4 she said she doesn't accept invitations.
This is the fifth gal I have abandoned now... I must finish what I started, I want to be great like Casanova. I am trying every technique till I find the one that fits me.

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« Reply #5 on: April 19, 2019, 03:40:37 PM »
I like your move. For this single move of trying all techniques to find the one that fits you, you'll end up writing the best dating book in the future with lots of stories to share.
« Last Edit: April 19, 2019, 03:42:09 PM by AnswerMachine »