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This gal is confusing me

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Kfas

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This gal is confusing me
« on: April 09, 2019, 01:12:15 AM »
I Chatdicted this lady but when I ask of her number on fb(as of that time we will be starting exams) ,I told her I have something captivating I wanted to tell her bt she was doing shakara telling me till after exams (she was doing her IT as of that time). I made sure I kept her on suspense as to what I'll tell her but she still didn't give me. In order not to look needy I forgot about her fone numba. I continue chatdicting her and then finally I GOV her, I expected that she will chat me up bt she didn't(we av neva met b4) . After like almost 2month when I wanted to enter our student park I saw a lady like her sitting close to a guy as I was coming closer she started looking at me that's when I know she was really the one. I met her n we talked for a while she seems excited to see me.  she said I forgot about her, I told her  what does she expect when ladies are rushing me. After talking to her I told her to gimme her phone number n gave her my fone to input d digits bt she told me she won't gimme that me that forgot about her is it 2day I'll remember. I said it OK, she as a choice.  I told her I av to go n she said its nice meeting me I told her it's not nice meeting her.
The next day she chatted me on whatsapp saying that so she finally met me dat I look more handsome in real life than my photos.
I later invited her to a program in my fellowship cos I wanted to present something entertaining ,she told me she will try n com bt she later didn't show up...
She don't snubb my msgs n she wished me happy birthday yesterday. I'm surprised that I chatdicted this gal bt she's still doing me shakara .. is it dat she friendzone me or Wat?

Re: This gal is confusing me
« Reply #1 on: April 09, 2019, 01:44:49 PM »
There must be a missing link. I know you're a ChatDictor, but I don't know how great you are with your skill.

If your chat is only focused on humor, then she sees you as a clown and no woman wants to date a clown.

If it's sexual innuendo + humor + timing + challenges + misunderstanding + other chatting techniques, then she's playing games. Don't fall for it.

Be the one to friendzone her. Never in this life should you ask for her number again. It's making you look needy without realizing it.

One day, she'll ask for your number, but tell her Buhari has taken it. Don't give it to her. Do to women what they do to men.

Unfortunately, the ways attraction work is: since she's acting hard to get, you're going to fall in love with her whether you like it or not. That's how the brain works. We love women that are hard to get.

The more hard to get game a woman plays, the more beautiful she'll appear to you and the more you'll fall in love with her.

Please, don't fall for her games. Yes, she may be cute, but she wants to use you to increase her and boost her ego.

Still chat with her when you wish, don't become her enemy, but date other girls and be the one to friendzone her instead.
« Last Edit: April 09, 2019, 01:51:36 PM by AnswerMachine »

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Jojo1

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Re: This gal is confusing me
« Reply #2 on: April 09, 2019, 06:22:12 PM »
I understand. I was acting that way before. Even though u 've read chatdicted but u' re still needy. That's why u think she's confusing u. Don't just read chatdicted twice and believe it's all in ur head. Read it any time u 're free until it stuck in your head. Let me share this.

I met a beautiful girl last year November, she gave me her number, we talk on phone but I was desperate to see her again. I asked her out twice in the logical way but she declined. Never knew I was making a mistake until I came across chatdicted in December. After reading it I said to myself "jeez, I 've been making mistakes ever since, no wonder. Never again". Then I learned some things.

I stopped calling her for one month and some days. Then she called me one evening but I didn't answer. I sent her an sms saying I'm busy, call u later" but I didn't. Now u see she's missing me. My instinct told me to call. So I said ok let me just call her so I did the next day evening at night, just to ease her worries. I actually heard the happiness in her voice because I gave her the gift of missing me. The new GOOD BAD GUY! After the call I disappeared for one month and some days again.

Just yesterday she called. I mean 8th of April 2019. Accusing me of running away, that I forgot her, and confessed that she missed me and when 're we going to see. I told her I will let her know when she is ready to take me out, she said ok she can take me out. We talked for about 18 minutes and she was enjoying the conversation. Haha Bro, now u can see she's now the needy one not me anymore. Table don turn, she no play hard to get again.

She's intelligent, interesting, respectful and matured in reasoning. I really like her but I want her to win me.

If u 're easy and needy, a girl will not want you and she will keep playing hard to get. But before u GOV a girl, make sure u give her the impression that u' re an interesting guy else she will probably not miss you.
« Last Edit: April 14, 2019, 10:23:46 PM by Jojo1 »

Re: This gal is confusing me
« Reply #3 on: April 09, 2019, 06:55:19 PM »
@Jojo1, your reply is 100% accurate. Keep it up.  You're a good-bad guy.
« Last Edit: April 11, 2019, 03:26:43 PM by AnswerMachine »

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Re: This gal is confusing me
« Reply #4 on: April 09, 2019, 09:06:08 PM »
@answermachine, thanks man, I will.

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Kfas

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Re: This gal is confusing me
« Reply #5 on: April 19, 2019, 01:33:19 AM »
We met on Sunday when she saw me she was smiling and then I hug her we talked for about 2mins and then I told her I'm late for church and went away.
There is something missing, maybe the humor is too much or Im not being sexual enough.
 
I asked of her number cos I once asked during chat I tot that when I give her my phone to type her number she will this time.
« Last Edit: April 19, 2019, 01:37:26 AM by Kfas »

Re: This gal is confusing me
« Reply #6 on: April 19, 2019, 03:38:05 PM »
The blunt truth is, younger women who are in exploration stage avoid men who are too Churchy.

Don't stop going to Church  because of women, but it's part of it. When these women get older and are ready to settle down, then they'll need a Churchy man.

At the prime stage, they need a bad boy who is too stubborn so they can tame him.

Women love to date stubborn a man so they can tame him. If you've already tamed yourself, then there is no need dating you.

No challenge for them. 

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Re: This gal is confusing me
« Reply #7 on: April 20, 2019, 11:05:36 AM »
Bro! I just read the other of your thread. U still don't get it and it makes me wonder if you 've really read chatdicted. I like the fact that you can approach and talk to girls but u still don't understand how women really work, especially beautiful women.

Movies lie to us, what u see in movies about boy meets girl, they just hook up, fall in love and that's it. Those 're what happen in movies, in the real world is totally different and u' ve to accept that fact. Don't be a disney character living in the fantasy world. The dating world is full of mind games u 've to play and that's the real world.

You' re still logical and it 'll always make u look needy and clingy and these girls can sense that miles away from u. Stop asking for a meet up. What u should focus on is to create attraction, just like answermachine said " ur job is to get her hooked" I thought u could' ve learned something from my comment the other day.

Act like u don't want her, give her some challenge, tease and accuse her. U can tell her she's trying to seduce u with her voice with the use of humour. That is what I do, but create rapport and familiarity first. Use sexual approach most of the time not everyday.

I like ur confidence anyway, but I don't want you to be depressed over women. Be a solid man bro. I 've been there before because I was clueless, so I learned fast and now I'm getting better. U can too.

Ok, why don't u upload the chat conversation u had with them and let answermachine correct ur mistakes.
« Last Edit: April 21, 2019, 09:58:03 AM by Jojo1 »