Clarification needed.

Greetings to everyone in the house.

Please, I need clarification on the issue of attention.

In my course of reading some of the relationship books here, I got to understand things like ladies love what is hard to get and the rest. I also learnt things like not giving ladies your attention.

Now to my question, I need a little more clarification on this concept of attention. Like what does it really mean when it comes to the dating world?

To get a lady, u must first chatdict her or at least spend some time around her and by doing so I feel u are giving her your attention already. Even if you use PP or GOV on her, you must still come back to chat with her. Chatting with her, hanging out with her, calling her once in a while, I feel these are all the same as giving her attention.

I just need some limelight on this issue and how to strike a balance, thanks.

Yes, give a woman attention, but don't allow her take your attention. That is the full meaning of not giving a woman attention. What it means is: Do things at your time and making, not when she demands for it.

Are you giving her attention at your own will?
Or is she getting your attention at her will?

The answer to that question is the answer you need.

Hmmmm, great insight!

Thanks @ AnswerMachine.