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what did you do differently
« on: January 14, 2019, 10:16:28 PM »
What did you do differently, during your early days in learning about women. I have read many books about women both foreign and Nigerian but it seems I don't go far. Not that I don't attract ladies but not the type I want. I have already told my self never to settle for less. I noticed I attract girls I'm not attracted to. It seems I'm doing something wrong. Some ladies have asked me out (I'm kinda handsome) but I play hard to get till they give up).
I must become great with Women this year.

Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #1 on: January 15, 2019, 05:21:04 AM »
What did you do differently, during your early days in learning about women. I have read many books about women both foreign and Nigerian but it seems I don't go far. Not that I don't attract ladies but not the type I want. I have already told my self never to settle for less. I noticed I attract girls I'm not attracted to. It seems I'm doing something wrong. Some ladies have asked me out (I'm kinda handsome) but I play hard to get till they give up).
I must become great with Women this year.

Let me tell you one secret. If you get a dating book for free through the internet or through someone, you'll never know the value and you'll not use it to its full potential. People who spend money to get a dating book achieve better success.

People who don't spend always roam around looking for the next free book with a magic bullet that'll change their dating life, but they never find it because it's free.

Though, the information they needed was in one of those free books, but they didn't notice it because it has no value in their eyes since it's a free book. Free things have no value even when they're valuable.

They say, "People who pay, pay attention."

Read the answer to your other post and pay attention to the VBB analysis. It's the answer to your question. Link to your previous post: http://manymen.men/?topic=55.0
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Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2019, 07:02:03 AM »
@answermachine
Since I've gotten admission I have game up to 40 different ladies but the bitter reality is that I didn't go far even a kiss I didn't get. Before I learn game n after I learn game I'm still having similar results. The Ladies laugh at my lines, hear my stories n even roleplay with me but I become surprised when I try to sneak into a relationship they tend to reject my advances indirectly. Some ladies after collecting their phone numbers n talking to them once their number becomes switch off forever,some never call back after I called them for more than 5tyms. Some when they see won't ever say hi until I do,n when I don't say hi dats how we won't talk again. A few will use their credit n call me ,spent tym Wit me giving me false hope only to find out they have been wasting my time. Now I'm starting to question game cos it hasn't given me the success it promises to give. I just met a new gal yesterday I am even contemplating to continue using game cos I've not been succeeding even a bit,it seems I'm only entertaining them. I Rather be appreciated than tolerated.
 Some times I feel game is limiting me ,I keep following rules ,It makes me give up on ladies easily cos I don't want to look needy,in being cocky n funny sometimes I feel like I'm just entertaining them. Not going far with up to 40 ladies looks like I have wasted my energy, time ,money and lines.

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Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #3 on: May 15, 2019, 01:13:58 PM »
No, bro. U 're doing just fine yet u' re still the problem.

U don't expect a kiss from a girl instead u go for a kiss or at least a kiss on her cheek for a start when u 're sitting next to her, even in public, just do it. U need to have balls for things like that, after creating connection, attraction, and familiarity with the use of sexual tension. Start by giving them a kiss on their cheek, It's a sensitive part of the body that can make a girl wet.

So far it seems u don't care about "SEX". And som of the girls u 've met so far' ve probably gave u clues with their body language and their eyes that they want sex but u didn't notice.

See, girls like to have sex but they 'll never tell u. The best they can do for u is give u signs and clues. Its good to play hard to get but don't overdo it, man.

No! U don't want a relationship yet. What u want is FUN and SEX. Then before u think of a relationship with a girl. U sound like u want something serious. Just see it a fun time. Don't take them serious yet. U don't 've to start from an official relationship first.

When u sneak and close the deal like a good-bad guy, she' ll be the one asking for an official relationship. Calling her my sweetheart, honey etc. That's the fun and she 'll respond as your girlfriend if u' ve done what is written in chatdicted properly. Don't take it as something serious. (watch your emotions and be cautious)

U need to escalate ur game to sex! These young girls of today their body dey hot! So when they sense that u 're a guy that is not interested in sex, they will turn cold, place u in the friend zone etc. It happens. I' ve been there.

Do u stay alone in school? If u don't, too bad. Even though, u still have to escalate ur game to SEX. Are u very religious? Sex is important and necessary.

Don't give up, u 're only getting stronger but u' re still missing one thing which I believe u know now. If u don't want to have sex with them, u 'll kip entertaining them.
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Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #4 on: May 15, 2019, 07:24:07 PM »
Since I'm not there with you, I may not know the body language you portray or how nice your breath or body smells. Some men have mouth odor or body odor, but they'll never know and their male friends will never tell them.

Hygiene means a lot to women. Any man with a poor hygiene is a no-no despite the amount of game you know. Health is life.

One question. Have you ever used your money to buy a dating book?

One problem with some youths is: they read FREE dating tips from numerous dating gurus and this is the beginning of confusion. This leads to failure.

We had a student who had read too many free dating books online from different dating gurus, yet he was not having success.

His head was filled with dating tricks that contradicts themselves. Serving too many masters at once is greed and it's a sin.

I told him to choose one master and stick to him. When he did, everything changed. You're in his shoe.

You want to know everything about dating, so you've read too many free contents and they're now contradicting your result.

Choose a master and stick to him. If you haven't read the full ChatDicted book, then that's where your problem is coming from.

People who don't read the full ChatDicted always have problems. It's the foundation.

Skip the foundation and failure is inevitable.

Note: have you ever used your money and purchased a relationship book before? (Not free version). If yes, what is the name?

How do you dress? Swag of swagless? How do you walk?  Confidently or like a nervous introvert?

Younger women don't like plain trousers and plain shirt or plain long sleeves on men — it make men look swagless. Such a dress code is for pastors and people who are already made. If you're a young man, dress like a young man — don't dress like an old man.

Dressing responsibly is good when you're made in life, but as a youth, there should be a little bit of swag in your outfit.

The musician Faze Alone doesn't dress with swag and it made girls run away from him even though he sings better than 2face.

2face on the other side added a little swag to his dress code and women loved it.

This helped his career and he started having confidence and believing in himself. In the end, he now sings better than 2face.

If you're too religious, always inviting them to Church program, you don't use a nice perfume, you haven't read ChatDicted, you don't know if your breath or body smells nice or stinks, you don't walk with confidence, and you dress like Faze without fashion sense, then have it in mind that you won't succeed with women until you become rich like Ned Nwoko.

To be successful with game, you don't need money, but you MUST smell nice, walk / talk confidently, have fashion sense, then have an I-don't-care attitude with a sense of humor and mystery.

Also, you must have your personal room, or at least, have a roommate that is understanding.

If you've read the full 550 ChatDicted and you understood what is inside, then game is not your problem, but external forces you've neglected or haven't noticed yet.

I have  noticed one thing in this forum. People who have read the full ChatDicted hardly ask questions on this platform.

Why? Most of their questions have been answered in the book.
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Kfas

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Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #5 on: June 08, 2019, 12:31:22 AM »
So if one invites a lady to a Church program, he doesn't use a nice perfume,  haven't read ChatDicted, don't know if he's breath or body smells nice or stinks,  don't walk with confidence, and dress like Faze without fashion sense, then he won't succeed with women even if he has game... Then I no longer see the importance of game?. @Answermachine

Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #6 on: June 08, 2019, 11:09:36 AM »
Game is for you to never lack what to say or do. It boosts a man's confidence.

All those things you listed above are parts of the game. If you don't know them, your game is incomplete and it'll be hard to succeed with women except you use money.

The rest is your behavior, no neediness, good hygiene, etc.

If game doesn't work for you, it's because you're missing a step. You need a real life mentor, not a virtual mentor. Some people learn better when it's 1-on-1.

Instead of stressing yourself or turning desperate, I'd advise you to focus on your studies for now.

Academic stress can weigh a man down and can make a man needy without knowing it.
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Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #7 on: June 10, 2019, 01:56:45 PM »

On matters of dressing I have seriously improved unlike 100L that I wore poorly fitted clothes. I wore slim fitted clothes, I work out weekly, I have stop barbing low cut what I do is punk, I av gotten some compliment. I make sure I take my bath after strenuous activities or work out, and of course I smell nice. Hygiene doesn't just mean a lot to women it is quintessential for healthy living (health is wealth) I realized that ladies notice shoes, so I went and bought new shoes. I was really serious in getting this together.

I'm introverted but not shy, If I like a girl I don't hesitate talking to her . Years back  When I was writing waec I saw this cute gal, but there was a guy that was following her everywhere. After our paper I was following them just to know her house, when they reach a Junction the guy was telling her to come to his house, she kept quiet but her body language was showing that she don't like the idea . After the guy left I use the opportunity to follow her n then approach her. I told her she looked familiar I asked her if she knows a particular guy she said she doesn't, but we continue talking we reach up to an hour, I told her I want to go but it seems she don't want me to. As of that time I don't know why I don't rush to collect girl number. I later found out she was related to the guy I asked her about (she didn't know he's English name). The next day I still followed thesame road but she was at my back I slow down for her to meet up with me but I did as if I didn't noticed her. Immediately she came close to me she said how far I turned n we started talking(that's when I started to believe that if a girl likes you she will sometimes be the one chasing you. Whenever a girl doesn't put extra effort to me she doesn't like me). The next day I don't follow the road again till we almost finished WAEC(I don't like overfamiliarity). I never knew I was obey some rules of game.

Yeah I have used my money to buy bang and advanced bang rule it was Charles Nneji that made me aware of game. I also bought ChatDicted, I don't have problem with ChatDicted, if I am less busy I'll snap most of my chats and upload it here. I have realized some of my mistakes, I was, too direct instead of being indirect, that's why most of the ladies I chat with decline meeting me, although some ladies still agreed to meet me.

Is not that I'm a total loser n don't get girls attracted to me, I mean the 8,9 and 10's. It seems they are harder to get and that's the kinda girls I'm always attracted to. When I showed my roommate one of the girls I'm going after he was like guy u like trouble o, he said he don't like to go after this kinda girl cos many guys will be after her. I noticed guys around me prefer going after average ladies. Game gave me confidence that I can get any girl although not every girl. The ladies I go after are classy but I overlook all that and remain cocky and funny, I tease them about their eyes, their skin color when they are reading I tell them to better stop reading before their head catch fire (there is no dull moment).

My problem is that the ladies I've met they don't seem to be all over me, I'm starting to think may be we didn't have enough rapport/connection. May be they don't know much about me that's why they don't bother to call me and others , cos it seems I'm the only one investing.

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Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #8 on: June 10, 2019, 02:00:29 PM »
As for focusing on studies, I'm a 600Level student, I just av 1 semester to graduate. I will still try to achieve something before I graduate. Academics has been stressful since 200L.

Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #9 on: June 10, 2019, 03:57:25 PM »
Great. Though, reading and practicing are two different things. Keep practicing and soon you'll overcome this stage. Have abundance mentality.

One thing I must point out is: if you're a virgin, despite all the games you learn in this life, you'll still be needy without realizing it.

Virgins are always desperate even after learning game. Why? It's because they haven't tasted the forbidden fruit.

They'll still be nervous around women even if they try to act tough. After eating the fruit, then they won't be needy again and their confidence will come to life.

I don't know if you're still a virgin. Are you? Don't lie, be honest.
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Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #10 on: June 11, 2019, 08:38:17 AM »
Lol from the place I come from we don't associate virginity with guys only ladies, since guys don't have a hymen. Nonetheless, I have never had vaginal sex before and There is nothing to be ashamed about.

Re: what did you do differently
« Reply #11 on: June 11, 2019, 09:22:38 AM »
Lol from the place I come from we don't associate virginity with guys only ladies, since guys don't have a hymen. Nonetheless, I have never had vaginal sex before and There is nothing to be ashamed about.

Now, I know the root of everything. I'm going to be blunt with my answer, but don't let it hurt you.

Calling a man a virgin hurts his confidence. It makes him feel he isn't man enough. It's a sensitive issue to talk about.

This is why men who are virgins will never agree to be one. Your honesty has set you free. It takes a lot to agree.

Now, this is the cause of your problem. Most girls are promiscuous and they don't like male virgins.

Yes, it hurts. Also, they can detect a male virgin a miles away and always avoid getting into a relationship with him — even pastors' daughters don't like virgins, but corrupt guys.

When a woman says, "I want to marry a virgin man," she is just joking and not serious.

They think sex with him will be boring and he doesn't have they experience to bring them to orgasm. Also, women see virgins as a man other women have rejected. I know it hurts, but I'm just being 100% honest with you.

So, they too will reject you when you make advances. Why? They can already detect you're a virgin even if you don't tell them. Your behaviors give that away.

Do you know the rich keeps getting richer? Why? It's because of abundance mentality — they invest and reinvest their money.

Now, your question is: how do I overcome this stage?

Answer: It's by having sex. You can wait till marriage. After you've had sex, you'll become more appealing to women. They can sense it. Women want what other women are getting.

If other women are getting your děck, more women will want to get your děck. If other women are rejecting it, more women will reject it. A woman instinct can reveal things about you to her.

The only solution is outgrowing this stage with sexual experiences. There is no other solution for now.




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