I am catching feelings and it's dangerous

Please I need your counsel on this.

There is this girl in my place of assignment, I met her, went on a date, we kissed on first date, we even almost fucked but distraction from friends stopped that . Finally finally we got to fuck each other at some point and it continued that way.

My problem now is whenever I am around her, there are lots of fishy things about her, like I feel she isn't trustworthy and she is fucking plenty of guys and as the days goes by, I find myself developing feelings for her even though I tried to hide it by sometimes acting like I don't care, it's really eating me I don't know what to do because I feel giving her my heart would be risky. Thank you sir.

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Please I need your counsel on this.

There is this girl in my place of assignment, I met her, went on a date, we kissed on first date, we even almost fucked but distraction from friends stopped that . Finally finally we got to fuck each other at some point and it continued that way.

My problem now is whenever I am around her, there are lots of fishy things about her, like I feel she isn't trustworthy and she is fucking plenty of guys and as the days goes by, I find myself developing feelings for her even though I tried to hide it by sometimes acting like I don't care, it's really eating me I don't know what to do because I feel giving her my heart would be risky. Thank you sir.

Simple psychology. When a man is desired by lots of women, more women fall in love with him.

The same thing with women. When a woman is suspected to be desired by lots of men, more men fall in love with her—it's sexy in a man's brain when he suspects a girl to be a bad girl. Bad things turn men on.

Suspected bad girls, not club girls, turn men on. These suspected bad girls are always gentle and charming, but they do crazy things behind.

Unfortunately, you're one of those men who has fallen.

Warning: Don't fall in love with your heart, but your head. Any man who falls in love will get hurt. If you must fall in love, let it be just 30% and let her fall in love with the remaining 70%.

Allow her to invest more emotions,  70%, in the relationship, else you'll regret. Investing emotion is a woman's job, not a man. A man's job is knowing how to last longer in bed and satisfy her like a little b*tch.

How do you make her invest more emotion?

1. Have at least 5 options of other women or at least, portray yourself as someone who has and let her be the one suspecting—and with this, she'll try to protect her territory. The reason you've fallen for her is: you're mentally trying to protect your territory.
2. Be great in bed (important—learn to naturally last longer in bed, not with drugs).
3. Don't tolerate nonsense behaviors of cheating tendencies, let alone cheating itself.
4. Walk away before it gets hot, but keep her as just a friend (friend zone her, else she'll do it to you in a bitter way).
5. Learn to stay single (best advice).
6. Aren't you afraid of STDs? Don't tolerate a woman with cheating tendencies. Unfortunately, all of them have it, so she'll definitely cheat on you whether or not you like it.

This is why I said you should be single, but mingle without commitment or making the relationship official.

Just the thought and fear of a woman cheating on a man alone will make him fall madly in love with her. In his heart, he will pray for her not to cheat on him, but the prayer won't work.

When a man starts praying for a woman to be open and not cheat on him, he starts investing more emotion and the end result is a man who is madly in love with a cunning woman.

Learn how the brain works and be safe. Remember, all single women are bad, naughty girls, but are great in pretending just to conceal their mission.

Men love having a taste of different vaginas and so do women love having a taste of different dicks to find the sweetest, not the biggest. In fact, women of nowadays love varieties more than men.

Women are not after the biggest dick, though, some are, but the sweetest and this is why I talk a lot about being great in bed and lasting as long you can handle without drugs at any given time.

Be great in bed and stay single. When you stay single, no woman will cheat on you—instead, they'll cheat on their boyfriends with YOU.

A man will feel depressed if a woman cheats on him. Why? He'll feel he isn't great in bed and that's why she cheated. This alone is the main reason men feel demoralized when a woman cheats on them.

On the other hand, if a lady with a boyfriend cheats on him with YOU, you'll feel good about yourself. Why? Because you'll feel you're better than other men. It's all a thing of the mind. We all want superiority in the dating circle.

Be the man women run to cheat with, not the man women run to cheat on.

How can you be that guy? It's by NEVER taking relationships, sex, and women seriously—yet be great at handling them, but never taking them seriously till 5 months to the day you'll get married.

Take your life and ambition as your number onpriority, but women as a resort for stress relief—not masturbation.

This is not to say women are not worth taking seriously, they are, but it's a way to prevent heartbreak, depression, thinking too much, and bad mental health.

The happiest men are those who are not in a relationship but are great in bed. Women rush them and don't task them financially.

The only way for a woman to be loyal are:

1. You don't give a fuck about women and relationship
2. You are great in bed (not a minute man)
3. You are too busy with your life
4. You have a sense of humor

If you have the above qualities and even if you're broke, women will beg you to commit.

Don't see other men as a competition, else you'll be depressed.

To get to a woman's heart, go through her vagina and be great at it.

When she catches feelings and falls madly in love, be wise and don't join her. Let her fall in love, not you. 

The reason you're falling in love is not that she's the most beautiful woman on earth—it's because you're having a feeling perceived future loss. You have invested more emotions than her even if you hide it.

When we suspect we may lose something, we value it more and become attached.

Most men, including up-and-coming alpha males, make too many mistakes—yes, it's allowed, so don't panic.

They have read too many PUA books or different articles and their brains are cluttered. Don't let your brain fall a victim and lead you to emotional heartbreak.

The formula is, don't fall in love. Read the post we talked about 7 reasons you should offend women.

Any man who ignores those things will fall in love and regret at last. Women don't love men who fall in love with them, but men who don't give a fuck about women—men that treat them like trash.

By trash, I don't mean to abuse them, but never giving them all the attention they crave.

In your case, the problem is you, not her. There is something you're not comfortable about yourself and it's making you think she'll find it in another man who has such a quality. Fear of loss pushed you into falling in love.

Even if you fall in love, which should not be more than 30%, make sure you're a troublemaker towards her and you live your life in your terms, not your emotions, or hers.

Any man who invests more emotions will regret. In a relationship, be the troublemaker and watch her turn to a peacemaker as long as you're great in bed.

If you can't last long in bed, make sure you read Lasticle book. It will change your life and give you the best bedroom confidence other men don't have.

You'll last 7 hours in bed and on command if you desire to. The instruction in the book is easy to understand, and it's a step-by-step guide. Even a 16-year-old can do it and it works like magic.

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very true everything you said except for the ''lasting in bed'' because she always complain i dont come and she likes to see it. where i think i feel insecured is in the aspect of sense of humor and great conversational skills, this i have really been trying to see how i can fix. thanks. 

Good afternoon boss.
Having digested your instructions yesterday, as I was about leaving for fellowship, she met me and asked me to get her a drink while returning of which i agreed but right in my mind I knew I wasn't gonna buy it.

Fast forward to when I returned, I was welcomed by her call asking me if I will eat that she made something and I should come over to her room. After dropping the call I was now thinking what to say to her as I was thinking if I should go or not then she called again asking me to come on time.

When I came in, she was already eating and almost through with the food, she welcomed me and asked me to sit. The next question was where is her drink? and I said I forgot that it's late now I would get it for her tomorrow she got angry and said I should forget about the drink, I shouldn't bother again, as I tried to make her happy.

I now asked her where is the food you called me to come eat? She was all attitude, never wanting to talk and I was really hungry. So she replied saying that she can't make it now but can fetch little soup for me so I could make the food for myself, I got angry and asked her to forget about it as I walked out of her room.

Few mins later she came into my room with the food prepared and said here is my food and I replied her that I am full I have eaten somewhere else, she can take it back of which she refused as she tried persuading me to take it, that it's embarrassing for her to take it back in the presence of my roommates, I got angry as I left the room for outside.

When I returned about 40 minutes later, she might have left but not with the food, as I took the food to her room and dropped it there and walked away. On reaching my room my conscience wouldn't allow me because she said she was gonna throw the food away and that thought didn't really go down well with me so I went back to her room, sat close to her and was telling her to try to understand how I work next time, that she shouldn't throw the food away I will take it tommorow. As I tried reaching for a hug she got angry and pushed me away so her roomie came in then I left.

This morning I saw her but didnt make any utterance. As I was about going out, went to her place, we greeted as I was reaching for a hug she pulled away. Saying I should leave. Hearing this I was angry and I left because she doesn't look like someone that wants me around.

I took my time to explain this so I can be sure I am on the right path with the decision I am about taking which is "" to go on a break, no talking when we see, no text, no calls"" as I am set to face whatever comes from it.

Thanks boss as I anticipate your wisdom on this.

You're on the right track, but you made some mistakes. You shouldn't have gone back after you left. You lost your balls like a sissy.

Don't be emotionally angry with women, but you're allowed to pretend to be. Anger is a disease, so learn not to be deeply angry, except you're faking it.

From your post, you still have 60% Mr. Nice Guy in you and the cause is: she's your only option at the moment and you don't want to lose her because she means a lot to you and you've shared some good memories with her.

This is the disadvantage of having only one girl to speak with and being too close to a girl.

If she keeps seeing you walking around single, she won't want you back, but if she sees you in the midst of other girls having a swell time, she'll get jealous and want you back.

At this moment, she has the power. Why? Because you went to her house to beg her, which you stylishly coined as, "Make her understand." What do you want her to understand? Your sperm count? 

In this game, called courtship, you need to be mentally ruthless and kill your emotional side, but don't act on it every time.

In dating, take all the blames, but don't emotionally blames yourself.

Real men don't make women understand, they ignore and get busy with life.

Drama is fun, and it makes a relationship last long as long as the guy is good in bed, but in this one, you're the loser because you acted emotionally just because of food.

Yes, it's good for a man to fake being emotional just to trigger drama, but begging, explaining, or making a woman understand is bad.

You as a man, you are always right, but don't it with her or try to prove if. For women, they always think they're right too and they love to argue it till a man understands.

Learn to ignore women when the drama has been triggered and also learn to flaunt other women even if you're not dating them.

Have female friends—it makes a man look attractive and irresistible to other women.

When a woman and a man get into a fight, the first person to reach out for reconciliation or clarification is the loser and the one who has invested more emotion. This person will get hurt at last.

Yes, it's good to let your ego down and call for a resolution, but that is the work of a woman, not a man.

Being too available makes a man lose value in a woman's eyes. Yes, the drama you've caused is 100% perfect, but your fragile emotion is bad.

I guess your pastor has told you to be nice to people and never be arrogant. He is wrong. Being a pastor doesn't mean he knows everything. The dating world is different—you need to be a little arrogant with a mixture of humor.

Don't apologize to women—except it's with humor and some tease. You can apologize to your fellow man, no problem.

So, you have messed up for going back to her house. This was an avenue for you to use to take back all the power, but your emotional side pushed you in 60% sissy, 40% alpha.

You're on the right track, but you made some mistakes. You shouldn't have gone back after you left. You lost your balls like a sissy.

Don't be emotionally angry with women, but you're allowed to pretend to be. Anger is a disease, so learn not to be deeply angry, except you're faking it.

From your post, you still have 60% Mr. Nice Guy in you and the cause is: she's your only option at the moment and you don't want to lose her because she means a lot to you and you've shared some good memories with her.

This is the disadvantage of having only one girl to speak with and being too close to a girl.

If she keeps seeing you walking around single, she won't want you back, but if she sees you in the midst of other girls having a swell time, she'll get jealous and want you back.

At this moment, she has the power. Why? Because you went to her house to beg her, which you stylishly coined as, "Make her understand." What do you want her to understand? Your sperm count? 

In this game, called courtship, you need to be mentally ruthless and kill your emotional side, but don't act on it every time.

In dating, take all the blames, but don't emotionally blames yourself.

Real men don't make women understand, they ignore and get busy with life.

Drama is fun, and it makes a relationship last long as long as the guy is good in bed, but in this one, you're the loser because you acted emotionally just because of food.

Yes, it's good for a man to fake being emotional just to trigger drama, but begging, explaining, or making a woman understand is bad.

You as a man, you are always right, but don't it with her or try to prove if. For women, they always think they're right too and they love to argue it till a man understands.

Learn to ignore women when the drama has been triggered and also learn to flaunt other women even if you're not dating them.

Have female friends—it makes a man look attractive and irresistible to other women.

When a woman and a man get into a fight, the first person to reach out for reconciliation or clarification is the loser and the one who has invested more emotion. This person will get hurt at last.

Yes, it's good to let your ego down and call for a resolution, but that is the work of a woman, not a man.

Being too available makes a man lose value in a woman's eyes. Yes, the drama you've caused is 100% perfect, but your fragile emotion is bad.

I guess your pastor has told you to be nice to people and never be arrogant. He is wrong. Being a pastor doesn't mean he knows everything. The dating world is different—you need to be a little arrogant with a mixture of humor.

Don't apologize to women—except it's with humor and some tease. You can apologize to your fellow man, no problem.

So, you have messed up for going back to her house. This was an avenue for you to use to take back all the power, but your emotional side pushed you in 60% sissy, 40% alpha.

Thank you boss, I know I could count on you scopes. But please I ask for one thing which is a comprehensive guide to handle this situation effectly like the ALPHA you want me to be. 🙏

Anticipating your reply.

The guide is short, and it's: don't take relationships seriously—only nice guys do (or an alpha who has 5 months left before marriage), don't keep grudges, and don't speak with you girlfriend every day.

Don't date a woman who stays in the same street as you. Love needs some distance and some missing to make it strong.

When love is too close, it doesn't last. Why? Jealousy from the man when he sees her with other neighbors. When love is too far, it also doesn't last. Why? Opportunity to cheat.

Then, how should love be? Love should have some space for both parties to breathe. Not close, not too far, but some distance where both don't use the same road to work or to school.

Most guys make relationship mistakes the first day they meet a girl. They never offend women early with humor. They do it late without humor.

Offending a woman makes her angry, but adding humor to it makes her confused. In your case, you did it without humor.

You need to keep women FOREVER confused if you want to be successful in the dating world. This is called mystery or unpredictability.

Question: How do you do it?
Answer: A little arrogance + Humor + unavailability + challenge + intrigue.

We don't give people things to say word-for-word, but we give a template they can modify to make themselves unique.

Our mission is to make our students be their own bosses in the future.

In your case, the template is: Get busy with other things (while still learning how women work). If your life is meaningless without her, then I'm sorry for you and you don't deserve to be called a man.

When a man is idle or doesn't have a computer skill he is desperately learning, he desperately channels ALL his emotions (or at least 60%) on a woman.

Also, when a man sees himself as "being lucky" to get a girl for the first time after years of struggle and rejections, he does everything possible not to lose her. Guess what? That is the fastest way to lose a woman.

A comprehensive guide? That is the same thing as writing a new book when we already have books on everything about handling a woman and sex.

Read Mrs. Vicky and Mr. Vick to see a comprehensive solution.

The guide is short, and it's: don't take relationships seriously—only nice guys do (or an alpha who has 5 months left before marriage), don't keep grudges, and don't speak with you girlfriend every day.

Don't date a woman who stays in the same street as you. Love needs some distance and some missing to make it strong.

When love is too close, it doesn't last. Why? Jealousy from the man when he sees her with other neighbors. When love is too far, it also doesn't last. Why? Opportunity to cheat.

Then, how should love be? Love should have some space for both parties to breathe. Not close, not too far, but some distance where both don't use the same road to work or to school.

Most guys make relationship mistakes the first day they meet a girl. They never offend women early with humor. They do it late without humor.

Offending a woman makes her angry, but adding humor to it makes her confused. In your case, you did it without humor.

You need to keep women FOREVER confused if you want to be successful in the dating world. This is called mystery or unpredictability.

Question: How do you do it?
Answer: A little arrogance + Humor + unavailability + challenge + intrigue.

We don't give people things to say word-for-word, but we give a template they can modify to make themselves unique.

Our mission is to make our students be their own bosses in the future.

In your case, the template is: Get busy with other things (while still learning how women work). If your life is meaningless without her, then I'm sorry for you and you don't deserve to be called a man.

When a man is idle or doesn't have a computer skill he is desperately learning, he desperately channels ALL his emotions (or at least 60%) on a woman.

Also, when a man sees himself as "being lucky" to get a girl for the first time after years of struggle and rejections, he does everything possible not to lose her. Guess what? That is the fastest way to lose a woman.

A comprehensive guide? That is the same thing as writing a new book when we already have books on everything about handling a woman and sex.

Read Mrs. Vicky and Mr. Vick to see a comprehensive solution.

Thank you coach. I am Ever grateful. It just occurred to me that I have taken the relationship too serious but you won't blame me,that's because she showed some home values that I prioritise in a relationship— cooking for me and being submissive. I will work on myself, she came to my room yesterday to greet me though and I understand she was really pained by my actions.

I will act with your advice and discretion hence . Many thanks coach.

Quote from: AnswerMachine on January 12, 2019, 02:03:29 AM

The guide is short, and it's: don't take relationships seriously—only nice guys do (or an alpha who has 5 months left before marriage), don't keep grudges, and don't speak with you girlfriend every day.

Don't date a woman who stays in the same street as you. Love needs some distance and some missing to make it strong.

When love is too close, it doesn't last. Why? Jealousy from the man when he sees her with other neighbors. When love is too far, it also doesn't last. Why? Opportunity to cheat.

Then, how should love be? Love should have some space for both parties to breathe. Not close, not too far, but some distance where both don't use the same road to work or to school.

Most guys make relationship mistakes the first day they meet a girl. They never offend women early with humor. They do it late without humor.

Offending a woman makes her angry, but adding humor to it makes her confused. In your case, you did it without humor.

You need to keep women FOREVER confused if you want to be successful in the dating world. This is called mystery or unpredictability.

Question: How do you do it?
Answer: A little arrogance + Humor + unavailability + challenge + intrigue.

We don't give people things to say word-for-word, but we give a template they can modify to make themselves unique.

Our mission is to make our students be their own bosses in the future.

In your case, the template is: Get busy with other things (while still learning how women work). If your life is meaningless without her, then I'm sorry for you and you don't deserve to be called a man.

When a man is idle or doesn't have a computer skill he is desperately learning, he desperately channels ALL his emotions (or at least 60%) on a woman.

Also, when a man sees himself as "being lucky" to get a girl for the first time after years of struggle and rejections, he does everything possible not to lose her. Guess what? That is the fastest way to lose a woman.

A comprehensive guide? That is the same thing as writing a new book when we already have books on everything about handling a woman and sex.

Read Mrs. Vicky and Mr. Vick to see a comprehensive solution.

Thank you coach. I am Ever grateful. It just occurred to me that I have taken the relationship too serious but you won't blame me,that's because she showed some home values that I prioritise in a relationship— cooking for me and being submissive. I will work on myself, she came to my room yesterday to greet me though and I understand she was really pained by my actions.

I will act with your advice and discretion hence . Many thanks coach.

Boss... Good morning. A lot has been happening lately with this girl (lady L), long story that I can't start now but would summarize.

I have been avoiding her and going about your instructions to me with her.

Before now, this girl (Lady L) has been flirting greatly with other guys outside, she hardly make out time for us, avoids me she was practically dumping me without telling me. Not until I yeilded to your instructions and have been flirting with girls in the lodge and it happens that her new room mate is one and she is coming very close and showing flashes of interest with me lately.

The problem now is she (lady L) has found out something is happening between me and her roomie and that hasn't been going down well with her, she even texted me telling me I am evil and wicked to do such, the roomie is new to the lodge one of the new corpers and she don't know I dated her before but she suspected and asked and I told her she (lady L) is just a friend and this always make her reply me ""she can't start what she can't finish.""

Boss what do you make of this?

No, you're not evil, but a man. Whatever she is feeling is none of your business. Live your life without apology. Use your instinct. Date whoever you wish and ignore whoever you want. That is how real men live their lives.

No, you're not evil, but a man. Whatever she is feeling is none of your business. Live your life without apology. Use your instinct. Date whoever you wish and ignore whoever you want. That is how real men live their lives.

Thanks boss. Really appreciate your teachings. More knowledge