Please I need your counsel on this.
There is this girl in my place of assignment, I met her, went on a date, we kissed on first date, we even almost fucked but distraction from friends stopped that . Finally finally we got to fuck each other at some point and it continued that way.
My problem now is whenever I am around her, there are lots of fishy things about her, like I feel she isn't trustworthy and she is fucking plenty of guys and as the days goes by, I find myself developing feelings for her even though I tried to hide it by sometimes acting like I don't care, it's really eating me I don't know what to do because I feel giving her my heart would be risky. Thank you sir.
Simple psychology. When a man is desired by lots of women, more women fall in love with him.
The same thing with women. When a woman is suspected to be desired by lots of men, more men fall in love with her—it's sexy in a man's brain when he suspects a girl to be a bad girl. Bad things turn men on.
Suspected bad girls, not club girls, turn men on. These suspected bad girls are always gentle and charming, but they do crazy things behind.
Unfortunately, you're one of those men who has fallen.
Warning: Don't fall in love with your heart, but your head. Any man who falls in love will get hurt. If you must fall in love, let it be just 30% and let her fall in love with the remaining 70%.
Allow her to invest more emotions, 70%, in the relationship, else you'll regret.
Investing emotion is a woman's job, not a man.
A man's job is knowing how to last longer in bed and satisfy her like a little b*tch.
How do you make her invest more emotion?1. Have at least 5 options of other women or at least, portray yourself as someone who has and let her be the one suspecting—and with this, she'll try to protect her territory. The reason you've fallen for her is: you're mentally trying to protect your territory.
2. Be great in bed (important—learn to naturally last longer in bed, not with drugs).
3. Don't tolerate nonsense behaviors of cheating tendencies, let alone cheating itself.
4. Walk away before it gets hot, but keep her as just a friend (friend zone her, else she'll do it to you in a bitter way).
5. Learn to stay single (best advice).
6. Aren't you afraid of STDs? Don't tolerate a woman with cheating tendencies. Unfortunately, all of them have it, so she'll definitely cheat on you whether or not you like it.
This is why I said you should be single, but mingle without commitment or making the relationship official.
Just the thought and fear of a woman cheating on a man alone will make him fall madly in love with her. In his heart, he will pray for her not to cheat on him, but the prayer won't work.
When a man starts praying for a woman to be open and not cheat on him, he starts investing more emotion and the end result is a man who is madly in love with a cunning woman.
Learn how the brain works and be safe. Remember, all single women are bad, naughty girls, but are great in pretending just to conceal their mission.
Men love having a taste of different vaginas and so do women love having a taste of different dicks to find the sweetest, not the biggest. In fact, women of nowadays love varieties more than men.
Women are not after the biggest dick, though, some are, but the sweetest and this is why I talk a lot about being great in bed and lasting as long you can handle without drugs at any given time.
Be great in bed and stay single. When you stay single, no woman will cheat on you—instead, they'll cheat on their boyfriends with YOU.
A man will feel depressed if a woman cheats on him. Why? He'll feel he isn't great in bed and that's why she cheated. This alone is the main reason men feel demoralized when a woman cheats on them.
On the other hand, if a lady with a boyfriend cheats on him with YOU, you'll feel good about yourself. Why? Because you'll feel you're better than other men. It's all a thing of the mind. We all want superiority in the dating circle.
Be the man women
run to cheat with, not the man women
run to cheat on.
How can you be that guy? It's by NEVER taking relationships, sex, and women seriously—yet be great at handling them, but never taking them seriously till 5 months to the day you'll get married.
Take your life and ambition as your number onpriority, but women as a resort for stress relief—not masturbation.
This is not to say women are not worth taking seriously, they are, but it's a way to prevent heartbreak, depression, thinking too much, and bad mental health.
The happiest men are those who are not in a relationship but are great in bed. Women rush them and don't task them financially.
The only way for a woman to be loyal are:1. You don't give a fuck about women and relationship
2. You are great in bed (not a minute man)
3. You are too busy with your life
4. You have a sense of humor
If you have the above qualities and even if you're broke, women will beg you to commit.
Don't see other men as a competition, else you'll be depressed.
To get to a woman's heart, go through her vagina and be great at it.
When she catches feelings and falls madly in love,
be wise and don't join her. Let her fall in love,
not you.
The reason you're falling in love is not that she's the most beautiful woman on earth—it's because you're having a feeling perceived future loss. You have invested more emotions than her even if you hide it.
When we suspect we may lose something, we value it more and become attached.
Most men, including up-and-coming alpha males, make too many mistakes—yes, it's allowed, so don't panic.
They have read too many PUA books or different articles and their brains are cluttered. Don't let your brain fall a victim and lead you to emotional heartbreak.
The formula is, don't fall in love. Read the post we talked about 7 reasons you should offend women.
Any man who ignores those things will fall in love and regret at last. Women don't love men who fall in love with them, but men who don't give a fuck about women—men that treat them like trash.
By trash, I don't mean to abuse them, but never giving them all the attention they crave.
In your case, the problem is you, not her. There is something you're not comfortable about yourself and it's making you think she'll find it in another man who has such a quality. Fear of loss pushed you into falling in love.
Even if you fall in love, which should not be more than 30%, make sure you're a troublemaker towards her and you live your life in your terms,
not your emotions, or hers.
Any man who invests more emotions will regret. In a relationship,
be the troublemaker and
watch her turn to a peacemaker as long as you're great in bed.
If you can't last long in bed, make sure you read Lasticle book. It will change your life and give you the best bedroom confidence other men don't have.
You'll last 7 hours in bed and on command if you desire to. The instruction in the book is easy to understand, and it's a step-by-step guide. Even a 16-year-old can do it and it works like magic.
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