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I am almost loosing the game, please help

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I am almost loosing the game, please help
« on: March 07, 2020, 08:52:48 AM »
There's this girl, I had interest in... I am very lively and naughty when it comes to chats and call. I can say I am good with the flirting game to an extent, although I only do so with gals I am interested in.

Regarding this girl's matter, I had known for a while.. Got her contact when I was 200level but, I didn't chat with her..  we are just viewing each other's status. Lol.

Late last year during our semester break, we got chatting. (I am in 400level now) Trust me I was naughty and flirty.. At First she shy away from those talks, but got more into it later.
I was the boss of the game at that period. She does more of the calling, it made me realize she's got interest in me already. Sometimes I ignore her calls, leave her text unreplied. She would complain about it, I really gave no excuse to my actions in particular.


Fast forward, now we resumed school... But my defense dropped seeing her 😩... I could not manage her like her did during the break.. That this babe had come to my apartment for like 7times, and I could not do anything 😫. I just could not believe myself, although I have made attempts two different occasions she rejected my advances.

Yet she was still around, talks to me everyday. We don't see everyday. I made this huge mistake of telling her I love her, hoping it would drop her defense. I moved in for kiss, she stopped me with her hand.

I am a greatest fuck up, this babe lies on my bed.. All around me, sometimes I get the green lights (her looking my lips, licking hers, facing me while we both lie down) but all the responses to those greenlight only happen in my head... Before I could muster courage to go in, damn the mood is turned off.

Just yesterday, we were so close but I could not still take any attempt.


Usually, I am not like this with other babes.. I can easily move in for kiss or get a gal to get in bed with me... Girls flock around me, that I am tagged Baba for the gals in my department.
But with this gal, I am what I do not understand.

She even made a statement recently, that I would doing like original, when she actually knows I am bad.

One thing is I know she's so interested in me, with my flaws and mistake.. despite telling her I love her, knowing my full intentions and me still unable to get it down with her... She still shows up, calls me at least twice a day... Her friends knows me already, sensing from their choice of words. They thought we are into something serious already.

Next Monday, March 9th is my birthday... I really wanted to use that opportunity to get it clear with her... Although I don't know how to plan that..
I have many babes around me, that they are proposing to come around me that day, some asking to be out with me. But I really wanted Just her that day, but she's not really saying anything particular about it yet.. She's only being asking what I wanted for my bday.



The greatest mistake is When I stopped sneaking without reaching the main bus stop yet... I could easily make her jealous, it is very easy... But I am afraid, I could loose her doing that. As she also could do the same..
How do I get in control

Re: I am almost loosing the game, please help
« Reply #1 on: March 07, 2020, 02:08:20 PM »
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Re: I am almost loosing the game, please help
« Reply #2 on: March 10, 2020, 05:04:18 AM »
Being afraid of losing a woman is the beginning of losing her.

You can't get control back with "I don't want to lose her" mentality.

To get her, you must do the things that'll make you lose her.

From your post, you're good, but you're just in your head and you overanalyze things.

Re: I am almost loosing the game, please help
« Reply #3 on: March 10, 2020, 09:37:31 AM »
Being afraid of losing a woman is the beginning of losing her.

You can't get control back with "I don't want to lose her" mentality.

To get her, you must do the things that'll make you lose her.

From your post, you're good, but you're just in your head and you overanalyze things.

Understood sir... I will make sure not to overanalyze actions before taking them.