Assistance needed!

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Assistance needed!
« on: December 27, 2019, 04:27:21 PM »
Hi @AnswerMachine

There's this girl that is in love with me, I know, after I've chatdicted her.

Some weeks ago, we were chatting and she was enjoying it, then she disappeared, expecting me to bombard her with messages, cause I was playing "fake love", lol, women and their dramas. I didn't. I deleted her number, so emotions won't crop in and I message, cause I like her too, though I keep control.

I know it hurt her esteem that I didn't message, then she messaged me on Christmas day, wishing Merry Christmas to try and reinitiate the chat. {She does this when I pp her and she's missing. "Happy Sunday" or some other random broadcast message.}

So, I asked her if that was a new number she was using to message me, and I know it crushed her. Cause it seems like I don't care, I didn't miss her at all, and I didn't even realise her number was gone from my phone.

She's kind of mentally fragile, I noticed, from the times I've pp'd her, or when I ignore her in class, or I'm talking to other people. She has actually admitted she misses me often, and I got that she thinks/dreams of me from her during a fun encounter.

Now, I know that after landing this crushing blow, I'm supposed to " fake love" again. Bad emotion+good emotion + bad emotion = strong love.

But I'm confused right now, maybe emotions are clouding my judgement this time, cause after I made her feel really low, she didn't reply, I know she's going through emotions and all, so I'm not judging her non-reply. Normally, I'd just delete the chat.

Is it okay if after some days/week, possibly new years celebration, to message back in and play the fake love?

Cause to be honest, I don't know if she's even mentally strong enough to gather strength and message me. Lol.
« Last Edit: December 27, 2019, 04:34:53 PM by Peterzeal »

Re: Assistance needed!
« Reply #1 on: December 27, 2019, 07:32:32 PM »
Nice post. This shows you know what you are doing and a great ChatDictor.

Yes, message and tease her, then chill. Don't worry if she's hurt or not women do worse. Men think too much.

Re: Assistance needed!
« Reply #2 on: December 27, 2019, 07:54:23 PM »
Wow. That's absolutely pleasing to hear from the boss himself.

Yes, that's my intention, message and tease. I'm contemplating if I should wait till new years or I can do so immediately, cause my plan is to go with a topic about us getting married next year. We're still young and in school, she won't take it serious, so I can tease her.

And that's very true, about thinking too much. It happens to me a lot. Once I think too much, I get confused. Sometimes, I'll then just copy out chats and send to my other phone, so I can read it in a kind of third person view, to stop the confusion.