ManyMen!!

First post.

Finally signed up on the site after a while. Big ups to the boss, iLegendd and the bosses at Clef Enterprises.

Where do I start?

First off, I've read about roughly 85% of your books, sir, and to be honest, they are the real deal. Each time I reflect, I always look at my self and confidence before I "met" iLegend, and after. Two opposite ends of the spectrum is what it is.

So, I'm a young guy, really young, and still in the university. I am academically sound, good grades and all, not broke, good looking, dresses all good and popular among the boys, and according to others, I carry good energy, but I'm mysterious. Lol.

There's this girl I chatdicted and talkdicted, and created that naughty and emotional connection with(sad anchor, family topics, among other things) and based on what I heard from friends, she's interested in me.

She even stylishly invited me over, but I rejected it with humor("I don't want her to rape me") but truthfully, I'm a virgin still. I know I've made myself seem larger than life to her, so I'm averse to taking the risk of meeting her in the other room, cause of my personal insecurities.

I know I have a small dick (just about 4.8in) which hurts my pride. Nature's gift, I guess. And as she's in my department and class, I feel like the embarrassment after going down under would be heard and my pride would be hurt.

Now I've found my self subconsciously avoiding her and from her actions I know she's irritated by my change in attitude, but I can't help it. I feel like I should stop chatdicting? knowing I can't take the final step and it gets me depressed at times, because I know that even with little effort, I could get any of these girls.

 

@answermachine

Reading...

Read.

Yes, it's obvious the media has been rambling on how women want it big and this hurts those who don't have it that big.

The truth is: with jelqing and hanging exercises, you can get it to 6 or 7 inches.

The main thing here is not really how big it is, but how good you can use what you have. So, don't feel down, but strong.

 Cross that bridge and if anything embarrassing happens, smile and say, "Failure doesn't exist � only experience does."

There are millions of men going through what you're going through. You may end up being their mentor in the future � the person who wrote a book to explain to them how you overcame that stage of life.

If you don't take action, you'll never grow. The people with the best stories on earth are those who faced humiliation the most.

We hate to be dehumanized, but it's the fastest way to overcome fear.

Just take the bold step, else, you'll keep procrastination and dying in silence.

Boss, you're correct. However, as humans, we always prefer to err on the side of caution. But, I get what you're saying.

About the jelqing, I read about it in Lasticle and browsed on it, then I located a site, "thundersplace", where people do jelq and give their testimonies and gains.

But surfing through, some people revealed that they had suffered " venous leakage"(have you heard of it?) where they can't keep an erection, as a result of jelqing, a small minority though, but it made me put a handbrake on jelqing that time.

According to the internet, the "average" penis size is roughly 5.4 inches erect, and about 5.7 inches when the length is stretched while flaccid.

My girth is in line with their supposed "average", and my stretched flaccid length is about 5.5 inches. The difference between stretched and erect is meant to be roughly 0.2-0.3 inches, however, my erect length is far from my stretched flaccid length.

I am an overweight guy, and I'm looking at enrolling at a gym during the coming holidays. My issue is, could my weight affect the blood flow to my dick, and is jelqing the way to improve the blood flow?

Thank you.

You're right on what you said. The leakage issue is only for oyibos or those who use dangerous creams like Bobrisky to tone their skins.

For a real Naija man, worry not � your skin, even if you're naturally light skinned is tough and can handle the momentum of the jelqing exercise.

Yes, jelqing is the best way to improve blood flow while Kegel supports it in strengthening the muscles around your pelvic floor.

About the gym? You need it. Exercise is good for so many things, not just sex alone.

Yes, weight does affect blood flow, but with exercise, weight won't.

Okay, boss. Thanks.